Intuition Fruition

This is from day 37 of 42 of the “blooming humans” endeavor http://bloominghumans.com/. I thought this was an excellent post on tuning in with one’s intuition….enjoy!
 
INTUITION FRUITION 
Each fruit has its optimum harvest time,
a window where all the elements of creation
have conspired to produce sustenance
for All Our Relations …
facilitating the continuance of Life.The fruits of our Tree of Love
represent our visions, callings and intentions
coming into BE-ing.All happy-ning in Divine Order, of course.As we align our Hearts and focus our genius
on Birthing New Reality, we become present to
the abundant gifts here and NOW. We see the see fruits of our efforts taking shape
and come into material form. Now aligned with,
and witnessing, the patterns of creation,
we are continuously receiving subtle signals
guiding us to take responsible action
– to know when it is time to act or be still.Our Intuition is a transducer for the subtle
energies and signals of shift in our environment.
When fully present to each moment,
our intuition provides insight and awareness
allowing us to act in accordance with our
Highest Good.Just for today …

Be present to the subtle messages, guidance and
signals arriving as you go about the day.  These come
in a myriad of forms — a flash of insight; a sudden
impulse to call someone; a feeling to take a particular
path or a nudge to wait, witness and perceive wondrous
opportunities at hand.

Gift yourself the experience of listening within, and
following the inner genius guiding you to Fulfill your
role in Birthing New Reality, and into full alignment
with the fruits of your efforts now being made manifest.====================================Blooming Humans are WE!==================================== 
Just like a fruit come into season, Intuitional guidance
has a “window of ripe and readiness”.  If we ignore it,
or procrastinate in taking action on inner guidance,
the window of opportunity shifts and changes.
Our reality is a dynamic, continuously shifting
orchestration of opportunities to manifest our visions
and follow our Bliss. Thankfully, we are provided
a constant stream of current information.  If one
opportunity was missed, a new one will appear …
one that is energetically aligned to the elements
of creation at play.In tuning in and leveraging the power and gift of
Intuition, we access our inner genius and are guided
towards people, places and resources to bring our
visions, callings and waking dreams into fruition.===================================”Explanations usually come along with intuitive
messages on a “need to know basis.”   When the bigger,
more important messages need to surface, they will,
so pay attention! Listen with your heart. We know
know that the heart has many more neurons than
it would need just for circulation of blood. 
By following through on your everyday hunches,
you are actually taking test drives, virtually honing
in on your listening skills. These skills will serve you
well. Everyone is apparently somewhat psychic,
but many people just have flabby psychic muscles.Learning to listen to your inner dialog tones and
strengthens this muscle. The more you use your
intuition the better you get at it. When we choose
to ignore our gut instincts, we are only hurting ourselves.
The holistic or wholistic movement is about healing
this problem.
Listening to your intuition is the essence of art and
creativity and soulful living. Intuition is what you
use to find the purpose of your life and your place
in the world. Once you awaken your inner guide
by unlocking the wisdom of your subconscious
mind, you already know what to do. 

69.1% of Mental Health Providers agree they need psychotherapy themselves

I  think all mental health providers should be mandated to undergo their own contuining psychotherapy, or participate in a peer consultation group as a licensing requirement, much the same as most are required to complete ceu’s. A certain nunmber of hours would have to be logged each year and signed off when the mental health provider renews their State License.

There are just too many Mental Health providers that are currently in practice that have never received a single hour of therapy themselves, and are capable of doing a great deal of harm due to their counter tranference issues. While a mental health provider continuously attending therapy sessions or participating in an ongoing peer consultation group ( as  did my last  therapist ), is not a guarantee of ethical and competant practice , it would create at least a small factor of assurance for clients that a mental health provider continues to work on their  “own stuff”. There are very few Therapists out there chose to become a Mental Health Provider without having a considerable number of significant life issues to work through themselves.

It seems many mental healh providers agree ,at least on the pre licensure end,   according to a poll taken by goodtherapy .org that asked  “Are you in favor of state licensing boards requiring pre-licensed interns to undergo psychotherapy as part of licensure requirements, assuming all potential issues are addressed and adequately resolved prior to implementing such a requirement?”

Here’s a link to the results: http://www.goodtherapy.org/201103-poll-results.html#

I’d like to see a poll of how those currently in practice who responded to the poll feel about receiving mandated therapy or peer consultation themselves !  Consumers interested in persuing this line of regulation can contact their State Representative and ask them to work on making positive change for the mental health consumer by revising the requirements for Mental Healh Provider regulation to include mandated continuing psychotherapy or peer consultation hours.

Connecticut Department of Public Health Quarterly Action Reports

Here’s a link to a report on some  “select”  Licensed Health Professionals in Connecticut.

http://www.ct.gov/dph/lib/dph/communications/rar/pdf/qu_3_10.pdf

The volume of hairdressers, and nurses still amazes me! So does the very low count of Mental Health Professionals…one LPC, and one Psychologist, who was mentioned as he “completed his probation” for incompetance/negligence…feel safe?
….and I still wonder what an embalmer can do wrong!

More on choosing a therapist…

This article has some information I find very useful! It is very important to ask many questions when choosing a therapist…remember… you are the boss and are Hiring this person to work for you!

http://www.wikihow.com/Choose-a-Therapist

It can be difficult to choose a therapist. The times we feel our best, smartest, and most discerning will usually not be the times we find ourselves wanting to get some counseling. And when we’re not feeling our best, it can be frustrating to sift through the names and counseling styles to find someone who is understanding, experienced, and in possession of a good range of skills. The following is a procedure which should make the process easier and the results more reliable.

Steps:
1. Determine what part of your problem can be helped by a therapist, and write a brief (two or three sentences) summary of this. Use What a Therapist Can Do and What a Therapist Cannot Do in the Tips section below.
2. Obtain the names of therapists from sources that you trust. These can be family members or friends, favorite teachers, school counselors, your family doctor, your pastor or rabbi, and any other person whose opinion you value. Use online referral listings too, as there is a wealth of resources available online, often with an informative blurb about how each therapist works, their fees, etc.
3. Call each of the recommended therapists: ask lots of questions and take notes. You could ask the therapist about his/her training, or about whatever else feels important to you to know (for example, does s/he have experience working with people of your ethnicity/sexual orientation, etc.) You might also ask the therapist about how s/he handles conflict: therapists who are able to repair the rupture in the relationship when there is a conflict tend to have better outcomes than their conflict-avoidant colleagues. You’re essentially acting as an employer who is giving a job interview, and you’re going to determine whether you want to hire this therapist as a consultant. Keep this idea in mind during each call.
4. Try to call several therapists before you make a decision. Compare your findings to the tips and warnings below. Does s/he return your phone call in a timely manner? Do you like the way that s/he talks to you? Do you feel relatively comfortable talking to him/her about what is going on with you? When a therapist seems warm, personable, intelligent, and knowledgeable, and doesn’t display any of the warning signs below, consider hiring that person. Once you have interviewed all the prospective therapists, take some time to think about the best choice. If you plan on using insurance, call your insurance company to be sure that the therapist you like is covered, or if that therapist will provide ‘out of network provider’ statements to you.
5. Remember that your therapist is someone you have hired.(!) It’s important to bear in mind that some problems will take longer to resolve than others, so treatment duration can vary considerably. But if you notice absolutely no change in your problem after the first couple of months, hire a different therapist.

What a Therapist Can Do:
Can be an understanding and supportive listener.
Can help you develop your ability to cope with life’s difficulties.
Can help you develop some of your life-skills: more effective communication, better problem-solving, better impulse-control, etc.
Can help you look at your problems in different ways and with a different perspective.
Can help you gain more insight into your behaviors and emotions.
May be able to help you make changes in how you function and feel. (This may require a lot of hard work on your part, though!)
Can offer advice on how to find services which s/he isn’t able to provide.

What a Therapist Cannot Do:
Cannot remove hurt feelings and unhappy events.
Cannot change other people in your life, and cannot tell you how to change them, either.
Cannot create instantaneous change in you. Personal change requires hard and dedicated work.

WARNINGS!
Here are some warning signs to watch out for. A therapist who exhibits any of these behaviors should be viewed with caution or even avoided altogether.
The therapist doesn’t seem interested in allowing you to explain your problem; s/he seems to be more interested in fulfilling an agenda.
The therapist takes a ‘one size fits all’ approach. That is, s/he seems to have a ‘rigid program’ that everybody needs to follow.
The therapist advertises or claims ‘sure cures’ or ‘spiritual transformations’.
The therapist seems bossy or confrontational in a way that makes you feel intimidated or uncomfortable.
The therapist tries to get you to commit to a set number of sessions, or tries to get you to sign a contract for a ‘program’.
The therapist claims to have some radical new way of living or looking at life, which s/he is going to teach you about.
The therapist tends to cultivate a ‘cult of personality’ or mystique around who s/he is or what s/he does.
The therapist responds to some of your questions with “You won’t be able to understand what this is all about until you’ve made enough progress.”
The therapist offers ‘insights’ about your past which don’t seem to add up — which don’t seem to be true.
***The therapist makes any kind of sexual advance towards you.
***I’ll also add if the therapist commits insurance fraud!
ex. billing for sessions you did not have or billing more than an insurance copayment amount

These last two should be followed up by reporting the therapist to your State Licensing Agency and if fraud, your insurance company!

Choosing a therapist is a “buyer beware” activity. Be picky, and take your time choosing. Go with he person you intuitively FEEL will help you…not necessarily who you THINK will help you. If your encounters with a therapist feel wrong…they almost surely are wrong, or at least the therapist is not the “best” therapist for you!

What to look for in a Therapist from Ofer Zur Ph.D

This is a pretty good checklist…I agree with all but the “expert” in #15…knowledable and professional yes, expert not necessary… and an ego trip label for the therapist
http://www.zurinstitute.com/choosing.html
How To Choose A Therapist

By Ofer Zur, Ph.D.
Director, Zur Institute, http://www.ZurInstitute.com

What To Look For
If you or a loved one is looking for a therapist, look carefully over the checklist below. If you are already in therapy, consider going over the list with your therapist as a way to evaluate your progress. Remember, there is a dangerously wide range of psychotherapists in practice. While many are competent and ethical, many more are injured people who enter the profession for the wrong reasons.

Be sure that 21 of the 22 items are checked.

If not, engaging this particular therapist may be costly to your pocketbook and hazardous to your mental health.

Checklist for Choosing a Therapist
Seems warm and accepting. Has a sense of humor, however willing to challenge you when necessary.

Is emotionally healthy. Seems to feel at ease with himself/herself. Does not seem anxious, arrogant or depressed.

Does not suffer from a God complex. Decent, respectful, not condescending. Neither shows off, belittles nor demeans. Check walls for over-abundance or certificates, awards or prizes. Check for excess of jewelry, silver, or gold.

Is trained in talk therapy, not just in “pill therapy. ” Watch out for someone who offers medication (e.g., Prozac) as the solution to your problems.

Accepts and encourages the idea that clients are entitled to shop around for a therapist before they commit. Is willing to talk to you on the phone for at least 10 minutes so you can interview him/her thoroughly.

Accepts the idea that consultation or second opinions may be helpful in the course of therapy.

Lets you explain your problems, doesn’t tell you what they are prematurely or try to fit you into a standardized box (e.g., co-dependent, you have been molested, etc).

Is active and engaged. Quit right away if the therapist avoids discussions, does not answer most questions, or pretends to be a “blank wall. ” Successful therapy needs ongoing dialogue and authentic relationships.

Has more than one clinical orientation and promises to fit his/her approach to your specific problems and not impose his/her pet approach on all patients.

Is flexible in terms of what is appropriate and helpful. Contrary to common practice, some clients can benefit from a walk in the park or a home visit; and a touch still has more healing power than volumes of words.

Is not rigid or paranoid about seeing you or engaging with you in the community. Accepts that you may bump into each other during religious services, your children’s school or on the basketball court. Does not hide behind the professional persona.

Presents you with clear office policies, including limits of confidentiality, clients’ rights, etc. Read the contract carefully before you sign.

Talks to you on the phone in between sessions if necessary.

While flexible in many ways, still maintains clear and healthy boundaries. No hugging unless you initiate it, no sexual innuendo, no business offers.

Seems professional, knowledgeable, and an expert (writer, teacher, supervisor) and above all competent, human and experienced.

Communicates well with parents when treating children and adolescents. A delicate balance must be reached between respecting adolescents’ privacy and not keeping parents in the dark.

Does not focus exclusively on your childhood or inner life. Make sure that the effects of real-life pressures, such as long commute, children or harassing boss, are dealt with.

Shares your basic moral and political values but does not work hard to prove to you how much they are like you (e.g., “I was molested too “). It’s okay to ask about the therapist’s values.

Is flexible about who can be part of therapy. At times, it is helpful to bring your friend/lover, child, or parent with you to therapy.

Conducts regular evaluations of progress in therapy, including discussion of treatment plans. Listens to your assessment of what is helpful and what is not during the course of therapy.

Takes responsibility for not being effective when therapy does not progress over time. When therapy has not yielded any significant results for a long time, neither blames you nor continues to take your money.

Is willing to go over this list with you without being offended or defensive

NASW Ethics Code “wishy-washy”

How strong can the NASW ethics code be when the words “should”/”should not” appear 70+ times in just section 1!

you can count for yourself here or below…

http://www.naswdc.org/pubs/code/code.asp …or below….

The only act expressly prohibited by the code is having sexual relations with a client.(Sec1.09)

Even section 1.11 on Sexual Harassment only states that “Social workers should not sexually harass clients. Sexual harassment includes sexual advances, sexual solicitation, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature.”

So what gives folks! You have an ethics code that a LCSW can run circles around and violate all but one aspect of that code without recourse or being concerned as to the outcome of unethical actions. “Should’s” and “should nots” are wide open to interpretation and do not serve to enhance the professions credibility or protect the interests of a client.

Sure, living life is hazardous in itself… and there is no guaranteed “safety” contract anywhere, but an ethics code of a professional organization must support the ideals of the organization in order to maintain it’s integrity…”should’s and should nots” are weak, unstable and to say it simply….”wishy-washy”

Section one of the NASE Code of Ethics
1. SOCIAL WORKERS’ ETHICAL RESPONSIBILITIES TO CLIENTS
1.01 Commitment to Clients
Social workers’ primary responsibility is to promote the well­being of clients. In general, clients’ interests are primary. However, social workers’ responsibility to the larger society or specific legal obligations may on limited occasions supersede the loyalty owed clients, and clients should be so advised. (Examples include when a social worker is required by law to report that a client has abused a child or has threatened to harm self or others.)

1.02 Self­Determination
Social workers respect and promote the right of clients to self­determination and assist clients in their efforts to identify and clarify their goals. Social workers may limit clients’ right to self­determination when, in the social workers’ professional judgment, clients’ actions or potential actions pose a serious, foreseeable, and imminent risk to themselves or others.

1.03 Informed Consent
(a) Social workers should provide services to clients only in the context of a professional relationship based, when appropriate, on valid informed consent. Social workers should use clear and understandable language to inform clients of the purpose of the services, risks related to the services, limits to services because of the requirements of a third­party payer, relevant costs, reasonable alternatives, clients’ right to refuse or withdraw consent, and the time frame covered by the consent. Social workers should provide clients with an opportunity to ask questions.

(b) In instances when clients are not literate or have difficulty understanding the primary language used in the practice setting, social workers should take steps to ensure clients’ comprehension. This may include providing clients with a detailed verbal explanation or arranging for a qualified interpreter or translator whenever possible.

(c) In instances when clients lack the capacity to provide informed consent, social workers should protect clients’ interests by seeking permission from an appropriate third party, informing clients consistent with the clients’ level of understanding. In such instances social workers should seek to ensure that the third party acts in a manner consistent with clients’ wishes and interests. Social workers should take reasonable steps to enhance such clients’ ability to give informed consent.

(d) In instances when clients are receiving services involuntarily, social workers should provide information about the nature and extent of services and about the extent of clients’ right to refuse service.

(e) Social workers who provide services via electronic media (such as computer, telephone, radio, and television) should inform recipients of the limitations and risks associated with such services.

(f) Social workers should obtain clients’ informed consent before audiotaping or videotaping clients or permitting observation of services to clients by a third party.

1.04 Competence
(a) Social workers should provide services and represent themselves as competent only within the boundaries of their education, training, license, certification, consultation received, supervised experience, or other relevant professional experience.

(b) Social workers should provide services in substantive areas or use intervention techniques or approaches that are new to them only after engaging in appropriate study, training, consultation, and supervision from people who are competent in those interventions or techniques.

(c) When generally recognized standards do not exist with respect to an emerging area of practice, social workers should exercise careful judgment and take responsible steps (including appropriate education, research, training, consultation, and supervision) to ensure the competence of their work and to protect clients from harm.

1.05 Cultural Competence and Social Diversity
(a) Social workers should understand culture and its function in human behavior and society, recognizing the strengths that exist in all cultures.

(b) Social workers should have a knowledge base of their clients’ cultures and be able to demonstrate competence in the provision of services that are sensitive to clients’ cultures and to differences among people and cultural groups.

(c) Social workers should obtain education about and seek to understand the nature of social diversity and oppression with respect to race, ethnicity, national origin, color, sex, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, age, marital status, political belief, religion, immigration status, and mental or physical disability.

1.06 Conflicts of Interest
(a) Social workers should be alert to and avoid conflicts of interest that interfere with the exercise of professional discretion and impartial judgment. Social workers should inform clients when a real or potential conflict of interest arises and take reasonable steps to resolve the issue in a manner that makes the clients’ interests primary and protects clients’ interests to the greatest extent possible. In some cases, protecting clients’ interests may require termination of the professional relationship with proper referral of the client.

(b) Social workers should not take unfair advantage of any professional relationship or exploit others to further their personal, religious, political, or business interests.

(c) Social workers should not engage in dual or multiple relationships with clients or former clients in which there is a risk of exploitation or potential harm to the client. In instances when dual or multiple relationships are unavoidable, social workers should take steps to protect clients and are responsible for setting clear, appropriate, and culturally sensitive boundaries. (Dual or multiple relationships occur when social workers relate to clients in more than one relationship, whether professional, social, or business. Dual or multiple relationships can occur simultaneously or consecutively.)

(d) When social workers provide services to two or more people who have a relationship with each other (for example, couples, family members), social workers should clarify with all parties which individuals will be considered clients and the nature of social workers’ professional obligations to the various individuals who are receiving services. Social workers who anticipate a conflict of interest among the individuals receiving services or who anticipate having to perform in potentially conflicting roles (for example, when a social worker is asked to testify in a child custody dispute or divorce proceedings involving clients) should clarify their role with the parties involved and take appropriate action to minimize any conflict of interest.

1.07 Privacy and Confidentiality
(a) Social workers should respect clients’ right to privacy. Social workers should not solicit private information from clients unless it is essential to providing services or conducting social work evaluation or research. Once private information is shared, standards of confidentiality apply.

(b) Social workers may disclose confidential information when appropriate with valid consent from a client or a person legally authorized to consent on behalf of a client.

(c) Social workers should protect the confidentiality of all information obtained in the course of professional service, except for compelling professional reasons. The general expectation that social workers will keep information confidential does not apply when disclosure is necessary to prevent serious, foreseeable, and imminent harm to a client or other identifiable person. In all instances, social workers should disclose the least amount of confidential information necessary to achieve the desired purpose; only information that is directly relevant to the purpose for which the disclosure is made should be revealed.

(d) Social workers should inform clients, to the extent possible, about the disclosure of confidential information and the potential consequences, when feasible before the disclosure is made. This applies whether social workers disclose confidential information on the basis of a legal requirement or client consent.

(e) Social workers should discuss with clients and other interested parties the nature of confidentiality and limitations of clients’ right to confidentiality. Social workers should review with clients circumstances where confidential information may be requested and where disclosure of confidential information may be legally required. This discussion should occur as soon as possible in the social worker­client relationship and as needed throughout the course of the relationship.

(f) When social workers provide counseling services to families, couples, or groups, social workers should seek agreement among the parties involved concerning each individual’s right to confidentiality and obligation to preserve the confidentiality of information shared by others. Social workers should inform participants in family, couples, or group counseling that social workers cannot guarantee that all participants will honor such agreements.

(g) Social workers should inform clients involved in family, couples, marital, or group counseling of the social worker’s, employer’s, and agency’s policy concerning the social worker’s disclosure of confidential information among the parties involved in the counseling.

(h) Social workers should not disclose confidential information to third­party payers unless clients have authorized such disclosure.

(i) Social workers should not discuss confidential information in any setting unless privacy can be ensured. Social workers should not discuss confidential information in public or semipublic areas such as hallways, waiting rooms, elevators, and restaurants.

(j) Social workers should protect the confidentiality of clients during legal proceedings to the extent permitted by law. When a court of law or other legally authorized body orders social workers to disclose confidential or privileged information without a client’s consent and such disclosure could cause harm to the client, social workers should request that the court withdraw the order or limit the order as narrowly as possible or maintain the records under seal, unavailable for public inspection.

(k) Social workers should protect the confidentiality of clients when responding to requests from members of the media.

(l) Social workers should protect the confidentiality of clients’ written and electronic records and other sensitive information. Social workers should take reasonable steps to ensure that clients’ records are stored in a secure location and that clients’ records are not available to others who are not authorized to have access.

(m) Social workers should take precautions to ensure and maintain the confidentiality of information transmitted to other parties through the use of computers, electronic mail, facsimile machines, telephones and telephone answering machines, and other electronic or computer technology. Disclosure of identifying information should be avoided whenever possible.

(n) Social workers should transfer or dispose of clients’ records in a manner that protects clients’ confidentiality and is consistent with state statutes governing records and social work licensure.

(o) Social workers should take reasonable precautions to protect client confidentiality in the event of the social worker’s termination of practice, incapacitation, or death.

(p) Social workers should not disclose identifying information when discussing clients for teaching or training purposes unless the client has consented to disclosure of confidential information.

(q) Social workers should not disclose identifying information when discussing clients with consultants unless the client has consented to disclosure of confidential information or there is a compelling need for such disclosure.

(r) Social workers should protect the confidentiality of deceased clients consistent with the preceding standards.

1.08 Access to Records
(a) Social workers should provide clients with reasonable access to records concerning the clients. Social workers who are concerned that clients’ access to their records could cause serious misunderstanding or harm to the client should provide assistance in interpreting the records and consultation with the client regarding the records. Social workers should limit clients’ access to their records, or portions of their records, only in exceptional circumstances when there is compelling evidence that such access would cause serious harm to the client. Both clients’ requests and the rationale for withholding some or all of the record should be documented in clients’ files.

(b) When providing clients with access to their records, social workers should take steps to protect the confidentiality of other individuals identified or discussed in such records.

1.09 Sexual Relationships
(a) Social workers should under no circumstances engage in sexual activities or sexual contact with current clients, whether such contact is consensual or forced.

(b) Social workers should not engage in sexual activities or sexual contact with clients’ relatives or other individuals with whom clients maintain a close personal relationship when there is a risk of exploitation or potential harm to the client. Sexual activity or sexual contact with clients’ relatives or other individuals with whom clients maintain a personal relationship has the potential to be harmful to the client and may make it difficult for the social worker and client to maintain appropriate professional boundaries. Social workers—not their clients, their clients’ relatives, or other individuals with whom the client maintains a personal relationship—assume the full burden for setting clear, appropriate, and culturally sensitive boundaries.

(c) Social workers should not engage in sexual activities or sexual contact with former clients because of the potential for harm to the client. If social workers engage in conduct contrary to this prohibition or claim that an exception to this prohibition is warranted because of extraordinary circumstances, it is social workers—not their clients—who assume the full burden of demonstrating that the former client has not been exploited, coerced, or manipulated, intentionally or unintentionally.

(d) Social workers should not provide clinical services to individuals with whom they have had a prior sexual relationship. Providing clinical services to a former sexual partner has the potential to be harmful to the individual and is likely to make it difficult for the social worker and individual to maintain appropriate professional boundaries.

1.10 Physical Contact
Social workers should not engage in physical contact with clients when there is a possibility of psychological harm to the client as a result of the contact (such as cradling or caressing clients). Social workers who engage in appropriate physical contact with clients are responsible for setting clear, appropriate, and culturally sensitive boundaries that govern such physical contact.

1.11 Sexual Harassment
Social workers should not sexually harass clients. Sexual harassment includes sexual advances, sexual solicitation, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature.

1.12 Derogatory Language
Social workers should not use derogatory language in their written or verbal communications to or about clients. Social workers should use accurate and respectful language in all communications to and about clients.

1.13 Payment for Services
(a) When setting fees, social workers should ensure that the fees are fair, reasonable, and commensurate with the services performed. Consideration should be given to clients’ ability to pay.

(b) Social workers should avoid accepting goods or services from clients as payment for professional services. Bartering arrangements, particularly involving services, create the potential for conflicts of interest, exploitation, and inappropriate boundaries in social workers’ relationships with clients. Social workers should explore and may participate in bartering only in very limited circumstances when it can be demonstrated that such arrangements are an accepted practice among professionals in the local community, considered to be essential for the provision of services, negotiated without coercion, and entered into at the client’s initiative and with the client’s informed consent. Social workers who accept goods or services from clients as payment for professional services assume the full burden of demonstrating that this arrangement will not be detrimental to the client or the professional relationship.

(c) Social workers should not solicit a private fee or other remuneration for providing services to clients who are entitled to such available services through the social workers’ employer or agency.

1.14 Clients Who Lack Decision­Making Capacity
When social workers act on behalf of clients who lack the capacity to make informed decisions, social workers should take reasonable steps to safeguard the interests and rights of those clients.

1.15 Interruption of Services
Social workers should make reasonable efforts to ensure continuity of services in the event that services are interrupted by factors such as unavailability, relocation, illness, disability, or death.

1.16 Termination of Services
(a) Social workers should terminate services to clients and professional relationships with them when such services and
relationships are no longer required or no longer serve the clients’ needs or interests.

(b) Social workers should take reasonable steps to avoid abandoning clients who are still in need of services. Social workers should withdraw services precipitously only under unusual circumstances, giving careful consideration to all factors in the situation and taking care to minimize possible adverse effects. Social workers should assist in making appropriate arrangements for continuation of services when necessary.

(c) Social workers in fee­for­service settings may terminate services to clients who are not paying an overdue balance if the financial contractual arrangements have been made clear to the client, if the client does not pose an imminent danger to self or others, and if the clinical and other consequences of the current nonpayment have been addressed and discussed with the client.

(d) Social workers should not terminate services to pursue a social, financial, or sexual relationship with a client.

(e) Social workers who anticipate the termination or interruption of services to clients should notify clients promptly and seek the transfer, referral, or continuation of services in relation to the clients’ needs and preferences.

(f) Social workers who are leaving an employment setting should inform clients of appropriate options for the continuation of services and of the benefits and risks of the options.

LCSW, LMFT, LADC, LPC… and what is a psychotherapist?

The below list is that of Credentialed professionals that are Licensed Mental Health Practitioners. Most States use similar titles, but the actual License Title may change. For example, in Connecticut a Licensed Clinical Social Worker is an LCSW…in Massachusetts a similar Title is LICSW….Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker. The key word is “Licensed” . Ph.d, Psy.D and MD are Licensed Credentials recognized nationwide by each State. See your States Mental health Regulatory Agency for exact info.

(General) Licensed Mental Health Professional Titles:

Psychiatrist MD
Psychologist Ph.D.
Licensed Clinical Social worker LCSW
Licensed Professional Counselor LPC
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist LMFT
Licensed Alcohol and Drug counselor LADC
Advanced Practice Registered Nurse APRN

Some States do have registries for unlicensed Mental Health and Alternative Health Practitioners, Connecticut does not. As a matter of fact, as I have mentioned in other blog posts, Connecticut does not even have a Licensing Board for LCSW’s, LMFT’s, LPC’s or LADC’s…the only “regulation” is directly through the Department of Public Health Office of Licensing.

All others are not regulated in any way!
Credentials/Titles such as those below are not Licensed Professions: I inserted blanks, as these titles will usually have a descriptive word or two before ( sometimes after) the title.ie…. “Spiritual” Counselor, “Mental Health” Advisor, “Life” Coach, “Career” Consultant

Mental Health Counselor
Hypnotherapist
Psychotherapist
Allied health Professional
Certified __________***Certifications*** are not licenses
___________Counselor (except as above…LADC, LPC)
___________ Therapist ( except as above…LMFT)
___________Consultant
___________ Coach
___________ Advisor
___________ Analyst

Anyone, without so much as a High School Diploma, can legally proclaim and use these titles!
….and there are others! People can be rather creative when coming up with titles that sound “professional”!
Nationwide, the Mental Health Profession is very poorly regulated! However you are taking a huge risk by using the services of an Unlicensed Practitioner. There is little recourse against unethical acts for the client of a Licensed Professional, there is zero recourse against unethical acts of an unlicensed practitioner!

Should a client record therapy sessions?

Some therapists record their sessions with their clients for their own benefit and legal protection…my question is…should a client in order to protect themself legally from possible unethical acts and incompetance of a Mental Health Practitioner. also record the sessions with the therapist?
How many therpists are willing to allow or do allow a client to record their sessions?

Bad Therapy Red Flag #10 (Therapist sales pitches you to join an MLM)

Bad therapy Red Flag #10 Therapist “Sales Pitches” you to get involved in a MLM (Multi Level Marketing) Group he and his wife just “bought into”

Not much explanation needed here. My former therapist, L.Ruder, did attempt this not only with me but also with my ex-husband during his weekly session.

Fresh back from a trip to Canada and Niagara Falls, the therapist and his wife had attended a “seminar” that he “had” to tell me about. The seminar was a MLM seminar to sell cell phone EMF (electromagnetic frequency) protective devices….they came in the form of pendants, etc. I shut Mr Ruder immediately down in the middle of his sales “pitch”and told him I had no interest in MLM organizations regardless of what they were selling…to which I immediately got accused of being “closed minded”!. I had to reaffirm that this was not something I had any interest in….period… and was rather “put off” that he would start my session with this BS!

My “reaction” to being sales pitched by a therapist should not have become “grist for the mill” for the #therapy session and I was quite perturbed!
He did however “promise” to never bring up the subject again, but if I was to change my mind about this “awesome” opportunity I could contact his wife.

…and btw…when this was reviwed as part of the Licensing Complaint I filed with the Ct DPH…the Consultant didn’t see anything unethical about it…yeesh!

Narcissistic Psychotherapists-Identify Them and Keep Your Distance by Linda Martinez-Lewi

Wow…so true!

http://blog.thenarcissistinyourlife.com/2010/12/02/narcissistic-psychotherapists-identify-them-and-keep-your-distance.aspx

Narcissistic Psychotherapists-Identify Them and Keep Your Distance

There are many excellent psychotherapists who help individuals, couples and families to identify, work through and resolve psychological and emotional issues in an ethical and competent manner.

In this post I am speaking about narcissistic psychotherapists—including psychiatrists, psychologists and various counselors who have narcissistic personalities and can cause psychological and emotional harm to their clients. This is particularly the case if the client is in a chronic state of crisis, emotionally dependent, lives in continual fear of abandonment and has severe symptoms of clinical depression and/or anxiety. Some clients live in a state of mental confusion and are delusional in their thinking. These people are particularly vulnerable in the outside world. There are narcissistic therapists whose major goal is to create and expand their business empire. For them only the bottom line that matters—how many patients will pay them at the highest fees possible for their services. Some therapists keep clients for monetary gain over periods of years rather than referring them to a professional or group that can be helpful. .

To protect yourself from narcissistic psychotherapist, watch for these character traits and behaviors in your psychotherapist:

Poor eye contact. The therapist is distracted and restless.

Taking telephone calls or initiating them during a session.

Constant self reference–therapist talks about himself and his family rather than focusing on his patients

Pattern of changing appointment times

Therapist displays behaviors of grandiosity and extreme self entitlement

Therapist does not listen and is not attuned to the client’s feelings, thoughts, fantasies, fears, worries.

Therapist does not make himself/herself available during times of crisis

Argumentativeness and defensiveness–The therapist is always right; the patient is always wrong.

Therapist’s lack of empathy.

It doesn’t matter how many degrees, clinical internships, books authored or prestigious universities a psychotherapist has attended. With all of the perfect credentials a psychotherapist can still be a narcissist especially if this is a smooth well rehearsed convincing role.

To protect yourself from narcissistic psychotherapists, do your homework. Referrals from professional people whom you trust is important. This does not guarantee that this is the right therapist for you. Pay very close attention to your intuition. If you are getting the impression that this therapist has narcissistic issues, regardless of his/her educational and clinical experience, listen carefully to this message. Don’t respond to any pressure a psychotherapist places on you to enter treatment. Interview several therapists. You are hiring someone to work with and help you. You are in charge of this decision. There are many excellent psychotherapists who are highly competent, knowledgeable, clinically and personally fit and highly empathic. Visit my website: http://www.thenarcissistinyourlife.com

Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.

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Book: Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life

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Email: lmlphd@thenarcissistinyourlife.com

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